Charleston, WV
May 19th, 2007Lisa and I pulled into Charleston exactly on time to meet some of the Charleston dance community for dinner. The trouble was: we didn’t know who we were looking for. As we tried to explain what group we were a part of to the woman behind the counter, a man leaning on the bar asked, “contra dancers?” Lisa and I nodded, then followed him and a woman to the back of the restaurant where a table was already set up for us.
Paintings with many-eyed humans and beasts watched us as we talked and waited for the others to arrive. We learned that the man was a chemist who had retired the day before. He invited us to his retirement party, to be held directly after the dance.
Two thirds of the band arrived–the Kessinger brothers, who were the grandchildren of a great West Virginia bluegrass legend. They had been playing this music most of their lives, themselves. Often, when a band isn’t ready to play after the caller has finished the walk through, the caller has to tell jokes to entertain the crowd. That night, the food was late in arriving, and the band entertained us with jokes as we waited. “What’s the difference between a dead opossum on the side of the road and a dead bluegrass musician on the side of the road?” the fiddler asked us. “The dead opossum MIGHT have been on his way to a gig.”
We arrived at the dance hall, St. John’s Episcopal Church, just as the bells were chiming 8 O’clock–on time once again! However, the set up went slowly and the dance didn’t get underway until several minutes later. I stepped outside to stretch my legs, and a woman outside asked me what contra dancing was. I explained it to her, and tried to get her inside to try it for herself, but my description didn’t entice her. It’s something I need to work on.
Steve Ballman, the caller, told everyone to line up. Lisa and I walked to the center of the hall, but no one got behind us. “The top of the hall is over by that wall, under the hanging quilt,” someone told us. We lined up with everyone else in a sideways set across the hall.
The wide stage was a dominating presence in the room. The band stood on top of it, between red curtains while the caller and sound person stood just in front of the stage. At the head of the contra set was a green quilt hanging from the wall; at its foot were tall windows. A table holding cookies, pretzels, and drinks was in the corner of the room.
“The dance begins with a neighbor balance and swing,” said Steve Ballman. “Then,” he continued in a wry voice, “you’ve got to explain to your partner what was going on there with your neighbor. Make it up to him or her with a swing.”
A couple of dances later was a circle dance. One figure in the dance had the gents on the outside of the circle, face-to-face and holding hands with their partners, who were facing out. The gents pushed the ladies into the center. “The ladies get their revenge and push outwards,” Steve explained. “But the gents push the ladies in once more, and the ladies push them out one more time.” This move was followed by a do-si-do and swing. “Tell your partner ’sorry about the push’, then move on to the next.”
Lisa and I were told by several people that attendance was low that night. Some speculated that this was because the dance was the last of the season. “It’s hard to get people to dance in the summer because they want to go off and do other things,” one dancer told me. The Charleston dance does not occur in the summer months.
There were some beginners, but most of the people there were experienced dancers. An older woman brought her friend to dance for her first time, and after a few times on the floor, the friend told me she was having a great time.
Just before the break, I chatted with my partner as we waited out at the top of the set. As new neighbors came to meet us, we were caught by surprise. I’m not sure if we didn’t circle or star far enough, but when the dust settled, we each had new partners. We never quite figured out a way to fix the situation, so we continued the dance with these others. “You should have seen your face when you realized what happened!” my original partner told me. We decided to do the first contra after the break.
Numbers dwindled as the dance went on, and by the final contra, we were dancing in a vertical set. The dance ended, but those remaining begged the Steve for one more contra. He obliged, and called another.
After the waltz, everyone there helped put the room back the way it was. Tables were set up and chairs stacked on top of them. The remaining snacks were hastily eaten or put away as a woman swept the floor.
Lisa and I were very tired, but we decided to check out our dinner companion’s retirement party. We followed him back to his place through some of the curviest roads Lisa or I had seen on this trip. The whole time, John Denver’s “Country Roads” played in my head. Late into the night, contra dancers snacked and socialized. We talked of public education and literature, and of the contra dancing we all had done. “Did you all know each other before contra dancing?” I asked them, just as we were about to leave with our hosts. They all replied that it was contra dancing that brought them together.
-South Charleston, WV